I hate that you chose alcohol over me. I hate that I just found out today your on meth now. I hate that your dying now and I have no way to help you. I hate that you once meant the world to me. I hate that I miss you dad.
If you would talk to your daughter about safety, talk to your son about consent. AND talk to your son about safety. AND talk to your daughter about consent. Either gender can be a victim; either gender can be a perpetrator.