I wish every single girl would believe this! If I had believed it, waiting for my amazing husband would have been easier! He loves me for who I am, and I have never had to even ask for it:) Wouldn't it suck to have a life based on an ultimatum ?
If it's not making you better, it isn't love. True love makes you more of who you are, not less. - Mandy Hale (If thats the case i think i must only be capable of 'loving' myself. I always lose who i am in the place of girlfriend or lover.
Never depend on someone else to make you happy. Only God can make you happy! Create yourself a full, happy life, seeking God and finding hobbies and ways to express your gifts, and your man will be included in your happiness, a gift from God.