Motherhood is about raising and celebrating the child you have, not the child you thought you’d have. It’s about understanding he is exactly the person he’s supposed to be. And, if you’re lucky, he might be the teacher who turns you into the person you
You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give. Real love moves freely in both directions. Don't waste your time on anything else.