HOW TO CARE FOR EXTROVERTS (The 5 As): Attention: Take frequent notice of and an active interest in what she is doing. Acceptance: Show that you are on her side and at her side. Affection: Be frequently demonstrative–physically and verbally–of your love. Appreciation: Make frequent mention and on special occasions a special mention of your recognition. Allowing: Join her and share in her interests in some way as often as possible.