"if a married person sincerely believed that his fantasy life amounted to the same thing as adultery — or suspected that his spouse had a robust fantasy life and so was engaging in adultery — marriage and romantic love would be impossible." And crossing that line is where physical or emotional betrayal is used for POWER & CONTROL - not love.
JESUS - The Resurrection & Life - John 11:25 “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die.” John 11:25 download slide here https://drive.google.com/open?id=0BwS_CE_X6I1MVlQzdzJLVHhIM2M https://www.hymnrevival.com