Unfortunately we learn a little late down the path that most things that we worry about and give our utmost intentions to dont really give us comfort . Stopping and putting things in perspective of fond memories and happiness doesnt happen often enough.
It's easy to cage one's heart after experiencing so much pain, with the potential to turn it cold. Don't let that happen - there is no harm in guarding your heart, but closing it up altogether will assure a cold heart and a loveless life.
Life doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful... Thank God! Luckily happiness is a choice and not a situation. We get to choose how things effect us. That is entirely way too much power to give the enemy... Don't you think? ;) - Steven Valentine