Just completely solidifies my theory that my extended family are assholes. (Except for a select few). May you all get caught for destroying my life for the past two years, for trying to make my life as pathetic as yours and may karma catch you quickly.
Amen!! And then sometimes you just have to walk away even after they're forgiven. You can never forget some people's actions, just simply try to forgive and then separate yourself from their web of lies dysfunction and manipulation. (I speak from experience on this one as you may see...lol)
I think it's important to take a small vacation maybe once or twice a year, reflect on your life and set some goals you'd like to accomplish in the near future. it takes a long time to finally figure out who you are as a person & what you really want out of life.
Slow down. We're often rushing to "do stuff"; to "get things done." But life is not primarily a to-do list, even if there things that need to get done. A priest friend told me about a seminary buddy who remarked, "if all you do is do, you'll get doo doo."