"I firmly believe that in every situation, no matter how difficult, God extends grace greater than the hardship, and strength and peace of mind that can lead us to a place higher than where we were before." ~Andy Griffith via (at) nearing
Many people mix opinion with fact. Unless you search for the facts, you're just repeating another person's opinion - and most likely stretching the truth (like a secret and passing it on). And, perception is not always reality. Get the facts yourself!