Candles in lavender filled mason jars--for centerpiece. Part of centerpiece with mason jars. Middle-size will have lavender seeds and candles. Largest will have fresh lavender in water. Smallest will just have a candle.
DIY wedding facts (a) I kinda like this. you can have "her" on one side and "him" on the other. This is a good idea for guests who may not know one or the other very well. - I also like this for fun facts about each others family