My father told me once to never date anyone who talks smoothly around you from the start because if someone likes you they should be a little nervous and honestly I think that some of the best advice anyone has ever given me.
Not sure of this is true but it sometimes feel to be. Emotional neglect is a trauma. That explains why being ignored hurts SO much! I vow to make it a goal to NOT ignore other people so that they do not feel this way.