"It is of practical value to learn to like yourself. Since you must spend so much time with yourself you might as well get some satisfaction out of the relationship". Norman Vincent Peale You'll never find it with someone else until you find it within you
Call her a hoe. Makes you look incredibly ignorant and we laugh. She hasn't slept with all the men you claim she has, that's you...You can sit there and blame her for the rest of your life, which you will, but don't ever forget what you did to cause your marriage to end. Don't lie about it either. Nothing I hate more than a lying hypocrite.