"I do not look back on my courtship days with bitterness, but...with regret. I spent more time elevating my ideology and myself than I spent elevating God. I was more concerned with doing relationships “the right way” than with manifesting the Spirit of God in those relationships. In leaving courtship culture, I discovered a powerful truth: love is a risk. It’s always a risk. ...It’s possible to honor God on a date, alone with a guy, in a car, ..."