It's funny how people make important decisions in life, the most important decisions of their life, based on what everyone else, the unimportant outsiders primarily, will think about things. Pretty backward way to live.
"Do not handicap your children by making their lives easy." - Robert A. Heinlein My parents made sure that I could take care of my own, stuff wasn't handed to me. I see kids today, and worry not only for their future but for mine as well.