"don't trust words, trust actions" - yeah, if someone walks away to date another: take that action as her narccissism! - no one would ever walk away a "love" they proclaim, to check out a "cute co-worker" - ABSOLUTELY NO ONE!
when it comes down to it, isn't this how we all want to feel! sad thing is we look for imperfect humans to do this for us when the Creator of the universe died to show us this! and still some reject Him and what only He can bring to their life!