Back then, I loved my spouse with every good thing that was inside of me. But when he betrayed me, it broke me as a woman. I've never felt so low, used and betrayed in my life. And it took a LONG time for me to recover. Because when you really love someone, cheating isn't an option...fulfilling your own selfish desires is not an option! There's a difference between Caring for someone and actually Loving someone.