And don't leave a forwarding address. And maybe start a GoFundMe account to settle estate debt that isn't mine before I lose my f'n mind! Newsflash: unsecured credit debt holds all the cards even tho all literature says they're in the poorest position. I'm tired of being the lame duck aka the executor. Also, a word to wise, never let yourself be named as the one with these duties. If you do, your family will dump you and your own life will fall be wayside.