Ask good questions, but when you are committed and believe in something--in a Person that really deserves that--believe all the way, implicitly and unquestionably. No time for wishy-washy or carnal lukewarm love!
Optimism, holding onto the hope instead of focusing on the fear! Take control over your life and take risks with your own caution, but don't let fear stop you from taking chances. Can't learn if you don't make mistake. So very True!