The best response to a narc is no response! If you must respond, show no emotion... This can be very difficult, but it will deprive him of what he wants most... A narcissistic payoff from your reaction/response.
I THINK THIS BOARD REALLY RELATES TO THE CA LIFE BECAUSE WE AS CA'S USUALLY WORK BEHIND THE SCENES AND A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T GET TO SEE ALL OF THE WORK WE ACTUALLY PUT INTO OUR JOBS. AS A CA, I WILL AKNOWLEDGE AND APPRECIATE ALL OF THE HARD WORK MY STAFF HAS PUT INTO THEIR JOBS.