There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing. -Aristotle (i. you can't avoid criticism so you must just learn to accept it and go on with your life. Accept yourself flaws and all).
dont confuse this with emotional obsession. this risk has various traits to it. your feelings for them are not enough. love is a combination. like them. have values.and life goals. its a partnership. its a choice.not fate. <------ love both of this!