Remains Of The Day was a BAD, awful movie though the acting was good, the protagonist thought wrong about loyalty. Be loyal, but only to good, not to codependency. The mafia is codependency, as is addiction partnerships, communism and socialism.
This is good for every woman to remember, in marriage it is not only the man who stands, but the wife who is to stand with him. Sometimes behind in his protection, but more often beside him, encouraging him, loving him, and honoring him. As well as participating in the decisions being made, marriage is between two people who are in this together, but they hold together in the sovereignty of GOD.