Yes! Trying to change people is pointless and insulting. Don't get sucked into negative vortex Lol. Be bubbly, be happy be loud be fun and enjoy this short life! Find people who love like you do! And find people who aren't trying to change you!
So true, for all my military friends around the world. You will never be completely at home again, because part of your heart will always be elsewhere. That is the price you pay for the richness of loving and knowing people in more than one place.