"Do not handicap your children by making their lives easy." - Robert A. Heinlein My parents made sure that I could take care of my own, stuff wasn't handed to me. I see kids today, and worry not only for their future but for mine as well.
Amen "controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. they don't ask themselves if the problem is them. they always say the problem is SOMEONE else" - so true for this narcissist who puts people on back burners!
Just hang on for tomorrow. Just because today is a terrible day doesn't mean tomorrow won't be THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. You Just gotta get there. Hebrews Jesus who is the same God forever, will NEVER forsake you, no matter how you feel.