If you wanna become someone with an awesome job, you can get there, IF you want it bad enough. If you want to marry a person but you don't want it bad enough, you are going to come up with excises and road blocks to getting there. There is always a way, somehow, somewhere.
Sometimes you don't need to hear their excuses or what they have to say for themselves because their actions already spoke the truth. For more quotes and inspirations: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/sometimes-you-dont-need-hear-their-excuses-what.html?ref=ppt10