So funny story... When I was 11 I was skating out( before I became a goalie) and we were playing a boys team... So I skated into this kid.., I wouldn't call it a check cuz there wasn't enough force to be a check but he whined at me... "don't touch me! That really hurt me" I just said "he kid, this is ice hockey. It's a rough sport. Toughen up or leave."