This is easier said than done, but it's worth it. Thing is, things don't fall into place all at once. When we're about to fall apart, God needs to work in us in order to reorient what needs reorienting, and to prune what's gotten wonky. And that IS hard work. But we should stay the course. What's worth it is watching God at work, and in watching and waiting for Him, we come to see how much He loves us.