Positive Reinforcement: 9 Things You Shouldn't Say to Your Child | Parenting. GREAT examples of what we should try to say instead "Katie's feelings were hurt when you told everyone not to play with her. How can we make her feel better?"
The Perks of Bickering in a Second Language -- Science of Us. "...it appears that when bilingual people are given decisions to make in their non-native language, they seem to take a more rational, less quick-draw approach..."