That is so important. Love is never deceitful. It isn't deceitful to your spouse. And it isn't deceitful to your children. If there is deceit in a relationship, it is not true love, rather it is self-serving and selfish for personal gain.
21 Quotes That Prove That NO Woman Needs A Man To Define Her
"You don't find your worth in a man. You find your worth within yourself… and then find a man who's worthy of you. Remember that." So please don't try to seek out your worth in approval from a man & own his personal opinion, because he's only human.
What does God say about you? 20 scriptures that define your worth in God's eyes. Knowing what the Father says about you changes everything. What God says about you is truth, what others say is their opinion.