Be careful what you say. You can say something hurtful in ten seconds, but ten years later, the wounds are still there. ~Joel Osteen also you should have been careful of immoral things you did towards your sister and BIL years and years ago.
therefore, don't have a job you hate. or you ARE HATE! haha okay maybe not, but if your job makes you miserable (like my second job does) GET A DIFFERENT JOB. or just quit the one you have. I think I will just have one job. the fun job.