Southern Lady - A compliment is a "gift" from the giver. You would never open a tangible "gift" and then proceed to tell the gift-giver everything you found wrong with it.would you? Never thought of a compliment in this way.
I'm hoping she attracted his attention not respect, and she turned his head not his heart. So maybe I won't turn his head in the same dramatic way but u think I have his respect. And maybe I won't flip his head around but I can or have his heart