The unconscious (the objective psyche) doesn't belong to me; rightly or wrongly I belong to it. By making it conscious I separate myself from it, and by so objectivating it I can integrate it consciously. ~Carl Jung, Letters Vol. II, Pages 56-57.
Live according to your True Self, not False Self. Regularly check in with yourself to see if you are living via your ego (pride, envy, love with conditions attached, power and control issues) or your Higher Self/Soul Purpose.