Be careful how you treat people...What you do to others has a funny way of coming back on you. May want to sleep with one eye open. That is one crazy piece of work you have there! I'm willing to bet you know that already!!
As long as others dictate your life you will always be at the bottom. Break free from others "advice". Am I the only person left in the world who does not give a **** about what others say and think about me? Yes I do care about what actions they take but they can think and say whatever they please.
"Your life is your life. Don't change your journey so that it matches someone else's. We need to walk different paths so the whole world can be explored. Revel in the differences. And your enjoy where you are."
I am going through this situation to help someone else. It's not all about, "woe is me, look what is happening to me." It's about "this is my situation, what can I do about this while moving forward? How does the Lord want to use me through this?"