Wether it's this or dress codes, the oppression of women across the board needs to stop, and telling one group of oppressed women not to complain because they could always have it worse isn't helpful, it's a THREAT. Oppression is not a competition.
Identify your triggers. Write them down, then identify your personal coping skills or make a coping tool box. Those coping mechanisms work temporarily. What can you do to transform your trigger to NOT having it at all?
They don't give a single fucking shit about gay, trans, MOC, or men that have been raped. They really fucking don't.^^ You start noticing that we are the ones who defend them, and the Meninist are the ones who are attacking them.
Like LGBT rights activists, feminist campaigners are often dismissed as over-sensitive, irrational 'extremists'. Even to many relatively liberal people, feminism appears to be a dirty word - a brush you just don't want to tar yourself with.