"There are two rules on the street," Lexi told him. "Number one: never give out all the information." "And number two?" Jason asked expectantly. Lexi gave him a pointed look. Finally understanding dawned on his face.
This is especially true when the "messenger" is still living in the past, and is already a screwed up individual to begin with. Or - it's all bullshit and has nothing to do with you in the first place.