Maybe that village is the nursery you send your kid so you can work uninterrupted, maybe that village is another working mom/dad/sister that you can share some duties with or maybe that village is hiring someo
Colleen McCullough, author of "The Thornbirds" & more, d. Jan her obit was remarked on this way "Why feminism? Because you can sell 30 MILLION copies of a single book and when you die, The Australian prints this"
The only reasonable explanation for getting defensive about a statement condemning male violence or discrimination toward women is because it speaks to you. Stop saying, "Not all men" start saying, "How do we stop it ?