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#lifetip people do not change ... unless they want to I spent too many years (seeing peoples true potential) trying to help them become a better version of themselves (helping friends stay away from alcohol get out of debt get into fitness get good jobs etc etc etc) .. but it doesnt stick if they dont want to change. This is true for friends partners colleagues older kids clients and so forth. Who someone HAS the potential to be is NOT who they are. Youre allowed to have standards and if peopl
THE MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP BOX. "If you take out more than you put in the box will be empty." Listen relationships certainly don't operate best within a "tit for tat" framework but this concept of a marriage box is a really powerful one. It's similar to the emotional bank account I spoke about recently in which Dr. John Gottman discusses the act of withdrawing and depositing into each other's (and our own) emotional bank accounts. As a society we tend to believe in the box/account being FULL ...