Narcissists are extremely sneaky. They will use your reactions to what they have done to you, in an effort to make you look crazy. They do this by telling others only half of the actual occurrence, and conveniently leave out their actions.
25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist Narcissists are notorious for treating the general public much better than the people closest to them. Narcissists are intensely concerned with the quality of their public image or billboard.
Never feel sorry for the Narcissist. They choose to ABUSE because it makes them feel good about themselves, albeit, only temporarily. The narcissist feels rejuvenated when they see you in pain and that you are suffering.