You have been given the idea of a Permanent Love which is going to Destroy your whole Life. You will expect Permanent Love from the poor Woman, and the Woman will expect Permanent Love from you. Love becomes Secondary, Permanence becomes Primary. Osho, Sermons in Stones, Talk #13
You either get bitter or you get better. It's that simple. You either take what has been dealt to you and allow it to make you a better person, or you allow it to tear you down. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you.