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18K views · 6.4K reactions | The triple blow of a toxic relationship with narcissistic or manipulative partner happens as follows.  1.  One or more major acts of betrayal (relationship trauma) that shatters the perception of her partner and reality as she knew it.  She no longer feels safe, trusts her partner, nor trusts herself.  2.  The uncovering of lies (gaslighting). She realizes that she has been lied to and gaslit.  This could be straight lies to her face, divergence tactics such as focusing on her flaws or flattery to conceal their behaviors.  The uncovering of lies is as traumatic (sometimes more) than the acts of betrayal themselves.  3.  The aftermath of the betrayal and lies has had on her.  She is not the same person though her partner will often expect her to behave as though Betrayal Relationship, Manipulative Partner, Toxic Relationship, 10k Views, Laura Ingalls, Relationship Coach, The Aftermath, Toxic Relationships, Narcissism
18K views · 6.4K reactions | The triple blow of a toxic relationship with narcissistic or manipulative partner happens as follows. 1. One or more major acts of betrayal (relationship trauma) that shatters the perception of her partner and reality as she knew it. She no longer feels safe, trusts her partner, nor trusts herself. 2. The uncovering of lies (gaslighting). She realizes that she has been lied to and gaslit. This could be straight lies to her face, divergence tactics such as focusing on her flaws or flattery to conceal their behaviors. The uncovering of lies is as traumatic (sometimes more) than the acts of betrayal themselves. 3. The aftermath of the betrayal and lies has had on her. She is not the same person though her partner will often expect her to behave as though she were. She is now a woman who has been traumatized by her relationship. She experiences hypervigilance, fight or flight, fawning, anxiety, depression, rage all while trying to live her life and maintain her responsibilities. This is where women try to adjust themselves to cope or stay in the relationship — shrink themselves, please more, fight, be a detective, have anxiety attacks, bargain, try to get their partners help, believe they are the problem. To heal, is more than going no contact. She has to recover the person she truly is and let go of who she became in the relationship to survive. Need help and you can maintain no contact? I created a brand NEW never seen before masterclass. Write masterclass in the comments to get it. #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticrelationship #narcawareness #emotionalhealing #emotionalwounds #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #relationshipadviceforwomen | Relationship Coach For Women | iammonicayearwood · Original audio
18K views · 6.4K reactions | The triple blow of a toxic relationship with narcissistic or manipulative partner happens as follows. 1. One or more major acts of betrayal (relationship trauma) that shatters the perception of her partner and reality as she knew it. She no longer feels safe, trusts her partner, nor trusts herself. 2. The uncovering of lies (gaslighting). She realizes that she has been lied to and gaslit. This could be straight lies to her face, divergence tactics such as focusing on her flaws or flattery to conceal their behaviors. The uncovering of lies is as traumatic (sometimes more) than the acts of betrayal themselves. 3. The aftermath of the betrayal and lies has had on her. She is not the same person though her partner will often expect her to behave as though
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87K views · 3.3K reactions | How to communicate so they don’t SHUT DOWN! #wivesoftiktok #communication #defensiveness #toxic #relationshipadvice #marriagegoals | Knowles Jimmy | Knowles Jimmy · Original audio
Jimmy Knowles on Instagram: "How to talk about Conflict. Remember, we can’t force them to reciprocate and take accountability and talk about how they want to show up. Our goal is to take responsibility for our own actions and make a plan for how we want to handle conflict going forward. I hope that inspires them to change as well and it leads to more repair and closeness and connection but there is of course no guarantee. Unfortunately people are free to choose to do things that only lead to disconnection in relationships :( #relationships #conflictresolution #dating #marriagetip #husbandandwife #anxiousattachment" Conflict Resolution, How To Handle Conflict Relationships, Take Accountability, How To Handle Conflict, Take Responsibility, How To Talk, Make A Plan, Marriage Tips
Jimmy Knowles on Instagram: "How to talk about Conflict. Remember, we can’t force them to reciprocate and take accountability and talk about how they want to show up. Our goal is to take responsibility for our own actions and make a plan for how we want to handle conflict going forward. I hope that inspires them to change as well and it leads to more repair and closeness and connection but there is of course no guarantee. Unfortunately people are free to choose to do things that only lead to disconnection in relationships :( #relationships #conflictresolution #dating #marriagetip #husbandandwife #anxiousattachment"
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253K views · 10K reactions | it’s more like dodgeball. #defensive #arguments #communicationskills #throwback | Fisher Firm | Fisher Firm · Original audio
69K views · 3.5K reactions | it’s more like dodgeball. #defensive #arguments #communicationskills #throwback | Fisher Firm | Fisher Firm · Original audio
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Feeling like you're falling out of love with your spouse is a common marriage problem - what to do
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8 THINGS YOU’RE DOING THAT ARE PUSHING YOUR HUSBAND AWAY
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