When people say something that creates jealousy, anger, frustration or sadness in us, we think they are responsible. No, we are responsible because the mind is not centered. How can we gain unshakable peace? Being individually happy is not enough. Our wish should be for everybody be happy and radiate happiness. Let this collective consciousness always keep me centered, joyful and happy. So in the ancient days, the prayer used to be for everyone’s happiness.