What a beautiful large low bun with real flower gajra! Care however should be taken before adopting such hairstyles, as due to it's high static charge, it will cause phlegm to move up in the throat, causing the voice to quaver & a frequent urge to clear the throat. A heavy chabi chhalla with a long & wide hook if inserted at the edge of the pleats of the saree, will reduce this problem as it's hook will activate the acupressure points that act to keep the throat clear.
Remember: Doing Nice Things for your family is just as good as for strangers. Don't tell them about it- just leave it for them to find. A sweet loving message or a thank you or an encouragement. Any kind word is good. The Art of the Surprise Note .