We don't understand the way a man loves just the same as a male doesn't understand how us woman love. We don't mind you having and taking complete control .. only if you understand the simplest thing about us. We just want you to show and prove you love us. That this not short term, it's what you truly want in your heart too. Nobody is asking you to bow down carter or whatever the male perspective is. We just want comfort, protection, love and appreciation with laughter